Ashtar answering a question at the April 10th teleconference:

Questioner: "When someone passes, transitions, there’s attachment and detachment, human element, that we as humans have to deal with.   Are there any tips on how to do that?  I think we’ll all need practice."

Ashtar:  "You could perhaps practice the exercise that you did tonight.  It gives you a sense of connection in the higher vibes of things, and perhaps makes it easier to have that detachment occur, while you are going about your 3D lives.  In other words, if you know that you can find a quiet time to consciously connect, then perhaps that knowing that that connection is there, and available to you, will enable a detachment. 

"When you say detachment, what you’re really saying is, to not be feeling the grief, or the sorrow, or the unhappiness, and it is natural.  Let me remind you, you are in human bodies, and it is natural to feel that, and there is nothing wrong with it, and you are  encouraged to do your grieving processes, and not to shut them off prematurely, because this can be in its own way, a hold back, or roadblock, or whatever you want to call it, to your own evolution.

"But we would suggest that you simply practice that connection.  Come to peace, come to calmness!   By putting yourself into a higher frequency, it enables that calmness.  What else is there?  Well there are some very obvious things.  You have tools.  Every single being in this conversation has tools.  It can be taking a nap.  It can be watching a movie, or a television program, so that your mind switches to something else, not because you want to forget the person, but simply because you want to forget the sorrows that you are attaching to that memory.

"Keeping yourselves upon your own path is a bit arduous at times,  is it not, with all of the things that are happening in this chaotic 3D world?  Taking yourself up and out of 3D is truly the fastest and the best way to cope with, and ultimately be free of whatever is causing you to be down into the lower frequencies.  Whether it be the passing of a loved one, whether it be an incident, or an event, a relationship breaking up, whatever it is, the best remedy for anything, even physical diseasements and traumas, is to get yourself up and out of that low frequency 3D vibration, and move up.

"The truth is that a lot of you are spending a lot more time in the higher vibes, and it’s a real bummer when you come down into the lower frequencies.  Now this is a way of saying that the lower frequencies really aren’t comfortable for you anymore, are they? And so it is wise to spend as much time allowing yourself this natural upliftment anyway.  Celebrate the life in body, and then go on to celebrate the life out of the body, i.e. free of the body.  Celebrate the fact that there is a difference.  You’re choosing to take your body with you, but you know that everyone has that choice, and is free to make it.    

"There is no difference in appreciation.  There is no difference in the welcoming that is given.  It is simply that there are more and more, who are arriving to welcome you, when you ascend.  Now that has to be a pretty good party does it not?  So in all seriousness, and in all love, bring yourselves into a higher frequency, and see how you can yourself, beautiful, loving and most powerful ones, see how you can transmute the lower frequencies of grief and sorrow into the higher frequencies of connection, loving connection, and celebration of the one, who is  still very much alive, and well, and loving."

Questioner:  "Thank you!"

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The particular exercise mentioned above is included on the CD of this event which is now available. 
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All the prior Exercises for the Heart that Ashtar and Family have been giving us are collected on one CD that is now available for purchase on our website:

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